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Wait Prayerfully: A Guide to Prayer for Advent

I am discouraged and wish I could start over. But as I sit here in the rare moment of silence, I contemplate your birth. In a bed of straw, with the smell of manure everywhere. It's a mess in that stable I suddenly see that it is not just into the mess of the stable but into my mess that you enter the world. You came into a humble place and that humility is often where I live my life - feeling guilty or distracted and wishing I were a better person.

But if I stop thinking of myself and focus on you, I realize that there you are, waiting to love me, even though I have so many unfulfilled good intentions about prayer, so many desires of how to change this fleeting Advent season. I can begin Advent today and make this season deeper by making room in my heart for you. I can take just a moment before I get out of bed in the morning and feel the empty place in my life I so often fill with my busy-ness. It is there I need you the most.

Come into that dark and lonely spot in my heart. You know what my needs are more than I do. Let me feel your love. If I only carry that thought with me each day, it will prepare me for Christmas. It's not too late. You are waiting to enter my life today, where ever I let you in.

Help me to open my heart in these remaining days. But, help me to keep a balance this season, Lord. Let me keep my buying in perspective, not to spend more than I need to or can afford.

Let me not give in to the pressures of this world and not equate love with money spent. Let me always remember the many, many people who have so much less in material things. Help me to buy wisely, so that my choices will not burden those in other countries who are so deeply affected by this country's economy.

And finally, loving God, help me to find time in the frantic moments of each day to become centered on you. Walking through a store, riding on the bus, hurrying down a street: Lord, how can I enter into this season of joy? In my head I celebrate your birth into this world, but in my everyday life, I am filled with a grief that runs so very deep.


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  5. Время всегда хорошее: Время - Детство! (Время — детство!) (Russian Edition).
  6. Let's Journey Together.

You blessed me with a loving relationship and now it is gone from my life. How can I be faithful to that love and the memory of that love and my sorrow in this season of "Rejoice! Tears are so close to the surface all the time and helpful friends who want to "keep me busy" don't seem to really understand that I need to embrace my grief. I am afraid of letting go of the sadness and losing the deep love connection I had.

Instead of entering into the Rejoice of Christmas, I long for the sorrow of Lent. I beg you Lord, show me how the two are connected. I ponder the name Emmanuel and know that it means "God with us. With me in this world, in this sorrow. If I look beyond my pain, I know that you, too, suffered so much in this world. I never understood so clearly before that Emmanuel is what your nativity is really about.


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You are in my world, in my pain. Thank you, Lord, for the loved one you blessed my life with.

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Grant me now in my grief, a peace. Give me a comfort that might not make the tears go away, but that lets me feel your presence as you take up a place deep in my heart, with me. It happens every year. I think that this will be the year that I have a reflective Advent. Preparing for Visitors to My Home They are coming! I am so excited about this visit. But I can get so side-tracked about how my house looks, or the food that I serve. I can only keep this prayerful with your help. Help me to stay humble this Advent and Christmas season.

You invite us into the humility of the stable where you were born. Help me to remember that humble-ness and the simple joy of your birth. Let me stay focused on my guests, not on myself and my worries about my house. Guide me in rejoicing in who these people are and in loving them freely. I am so looking forward to Christmas Day, with the family here, the company, the wonderful celebration. I can't see atonement in a mainly legal way; I can't even care take the determinism serious, and I feel like they're reading things into the bible all the time that aren't there at all wait, that happens all the time in other traditions too.

But that was awhile ago… and now, in answer to your question at the end, I don't know that we need a third way. We need all kinds of ways. So, I'm not sure I share your angst though I think I understand where you are coming from. It seems to me that the Gospel always finds a way.

In the same way that information wants to be free, the Gospel wants to be contextualized and enculturated. It always has been and it always will be. Ultimately, while we bear responsibility to prayerfully plead with the Lord of the Harvest for savvy workers who know their fields, it's His responsibility to prepare and send them through us, of course.

I guess, that while sharing a sense of urgency that the Gospel not lose ground, that people hear and believe, I think what I don't feel is the weight of responsibility to come up with or formulate the type of Gospel Presentation that will reach postmoderns. Particularly because in many ways, I aren't one. I have to say I share your reaction to Belcher's book. But hey, at least he's stepped away from pastoring to publish more of them. I think that speaks something to the underlying worldview doesn't it? I find myself initially suspicious about books and christian media that sells well: Anyways, it seems to me Belcher is more concerned about engaging "postmoderns" i.

Bob, always the irenic one, this is why we need each other, and BTW I think we both need Belcher, for I think he has in his writing tapped into something. But I think what we're doing here is all part of you describe as "the Gospel always finding a way. And my question for the Neo-reformed is, are they journeying into the far country, or retreating in an enclave? Erin … keen observation at the end of your comment… thanks. I may be a little late on this…but what it the third way was more about worldview, more about attitude.

McNeal claims that missional is a worldview, once you put on the lenses, you see everything through them. Therefore, it is not primarily about theology. It is a worldview that people from many theologies can embrace and move forward in their own unique direction. It seems to me that Belcher, while Reformed in his theology, has a more missional worldview and is more open and accepting of others who share the worldview but have differing theologies.

Keller is much the same way. Why, then, criticize Neo-Reformers who share the worldview but not the theology? That strikes me as more limiting than they themselves are though I admit there are many non-missional Neo-Reformers that are closed minded etc, but Belcher and Keller were the examples. I guess in all this I agree with Bob. There are many faithful ways to be on mission. Or am I reading you incorrectly?

As you know, I have been greatly influenced by your ministry and the ministry of Life on the Vine.

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I feel as though I was raised there. In many ways, LoV is where I grew up in Christ. I will always be indebted to you and the church family there. So I have a tremendous appreciation for what you are doing, though I've been gone these past seven seven! By the way, miss you guys tremendously. As another caveat, let me offer that typically, you're a few years ahead of me.

That is, I hear you for awhile, think you're a crackpot, then live, experience, learn on some stuff and eventually circle back around to where you've been all along. And I'm open to the idea that's the case here.

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But this post, brother — it's gobbledygook! Or, at least, I can't understand it. It seems like a meaningless intramural debate. I hear you saying that the neo-Reformed movement epitomized by Jim Belcher is not an adequate third way because — what? It's too tied to the cultural foundations of the west, esp. What does this mean? Can you please help me understand how your neo-anabaptistic, holiness, missional, evangelical, baptist seminary you forgot Alliance hereafter referred to as N.

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A for short rubric for life and ministry is different? So far, I'm with Roger on this one — it's too easy to deconstruct someone else's thing. OR, if we wanted to take some potshots and deconstruct your deal, wouldn't it be just as easy to say that Dave Fitch's NAHMEBSA thinking is too tied to postmodern philosophy and will eventually become the new old liberalism. It's just so easy to say something like that without any appreciation for the ministry you're doing. I could pull a couple quotes from your book, conjecture a little, diddle with words and voila! Fitch does not have a third way.

Finally, what do you mean when you say it will repeat the fate of evangelicalism? Have you ever met any of the converts of the neo-reformed movement? Let the small flame constantly remind you of Jesus, the Light of the World. So now I stopped counting. Instead, I display a beautiful print-out of the prayer, and say it as often as I can, any time my mind or eyes turn to it throughout the day. If you want more formal, structured prayer, there are countless free resources to help you boost your prayer life.

Sometimes I pick this practice up during Advent. I love this practice because it unites us to the Body of Christ praying around the world. As the weather turns bleak and the trees become bare, I could use an extra hand discovering the beauty of the season. We can reclaim them for Jesus with a quick moment of prayer.

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Sprinkle some holy water. Ask Jesus to remind you of eternity by the ever-greenness. To remind you of the light of truth by the sparkling Christmas lights.

What is Advent?

That their lives may be filled with the sweetness of the newborn Baby Jesus. That your cookies will bring joy and fellowship to your family and friends. If you do any gift exchange, add a quick prayer before tearing into the wrapping paper. Thank Jesus for giving you the gift of Himself. Tell Him we want to give back to Him — like the wise men did, with gifts and acts of charity towards each other.

Ask Him to open our hearts to receive all our gifts and blessings with a spirit of gratitude and thanksgiving. Then let the unwrapping begin! When you send Christmas cards, pray for each recipient. Throw a Bible verse next to your traditional family photo. We cut Christmas pictures out of religious magazines, glue them to a postcard sized piece of cardboard, and write a prayer offering as our message. If you have a few extra bucks to spend, start slowly investing in beautiful Advent traditions that will last for years.

You know the drill. Light a new candle every week. Blow them out when dinner is done.

Prayer For Advent